At a wedding at home the Vidaai has somewhere to go. The bride leaves her parents' house for her husband's. At a destination wedding everyone is staying in the same hotel, often on the same floor, and the emotional logic of the ritual has nowhere to land.
What families usually do
Hold it anyway, and hold it properly. The car is real, the rice is real, and the bride and groom leave for a different property for the night. The distance is symbolic rather than geographic and nobody minds.
Some families move it to the airport departure the following day, which sounds practical and in our experience is worse. Airports are the wrong room for it.
The day after
A late brunch, outdoors, no schedule. Most of your guests have flown a long way and have another flight coming. The best day after we have run was a long lunch by a pool that started at noon and ended when people left for the airport.
Do not plan an excursion for the morning after the wedding. It gets cancelled every time.
Getting everyone home
Departures are messier than arrivals because they are staggered across two days and nobody is coordinating. Collect flight details at the RSVP stage rather than the week before, and run the transfer schedule from that.
Late checkout for the families is worth negotiating into the venue contract at the start. It costs little in a block booking and it is the difference between a calm last morning and four hundred people sitting in a lobby.